If you’re anything like me, the thrill of a major sporting event like the World Cup is just the beginning. It’s the spark that ignites a much larger journey. When I think of California, I don’t just see the stadiums; I see a sprawling, sun-drenched canvas of memories waiting to be made. Whether you’re cheering in the stands or just catching the electric energy in the air, you absolutely must take the time to explore the “slow travel” side of the Golden State.
I’ve carefully planned a route that takes you from the rolling vineyards of the north down to the shimmering Pacific shores of the south. This isn’t just a trip; it’s a journey of discovery. We’re talking about sipping world-class Cabernets, stepping back into the Wild West, and ending your days with your toes in the sand. So, grab your sunglasses and a light jacket—here is my ultimate playbook for experiencing the very best of California.
Northern California: Vines, Victories, and Vintage Charm
There is something so incredibly restorative about Northern California. It has a way of making you slow down, breathe in the scent of eucalyptus and sea salt, and truly immerse yourself in the moment.
The Napa Valley Escape: Silverado Resort
If you want to feel like you’ve stepped into a postcard, your first stop has to be Silverado Resort. Located in the heart of Napa Valley, this isn’t just a hotel; it’s an estate that embodies sophisticated relaxation. After the high-octane energy of a match, the lush green fairways and 1,200 acres of oak-strewn hills are exactly what the soul needs.

The style here is timeless—think Mansion-style elegance meets modern comfort. I love to recommend their Silverado Spa, where you can get a “Chardonnay Sugar Scrub” that feels like the ultimate indulgence. For the active traveler, they have championship golf courses and dozens of tennis courts. But let’s be honest, we’re here for the wine too! You’re just minutes from legendary stops like Silverado Vineyards and the stunning Darioush Winery. I think there’s nothing better than returning to the resort’s Forno for an artisanal pizza and a local vintage after a day of tasting.
Coastal Serenity: Monterey Bay Gems
As you head south towards the coast, you’ll find yourself in Monterey—a place that holds such a special spot in my heart. It’s charming, historic, and wonderfully walkable. Curator has a delightful collection of boutique properties here, each with its own unique personality.
- Casa Munras Garden Hotel & Spa: This is where history meets a “hidden gem” vibe. It’s located in the historic Old Town Monterey and feels like a private hacienda. The lush gardens and the DESUAR Spa offer a thoughtful retreat. You must try the tapas at Estéban Restaurant—their outdoor terrace with fire pits is the perfect spot for a shared family meal.
- Monterey Bay Inn: If you want to wake up to the sound of barking sea lions (it’s a delight, trust me!), stay here. It’s located right on Cannery Row. Each room has a private balcony, and I highly suggest taking your morning coffee out there to watch the sea otters play in the kelp forests.
- Spindrift Inn: This is the definition of a romantic coastal escape. It’s a European-style boutique inn nestled right on the beach. They even deliver a silver-tray continental breakfast to your room! It feels very “Old World” in the best way possible.
- Victorian Inn: This property is perfect for families. It’s charming and pet-friendly, featuring marble fireplaces in the rooms. It’s just a short walk to the Monterey Bay Aquarium, which is an absolute must-see experience for all ages.
- Wave Street Inn: For a more modern, beach-chic vibe, this is your spot. It’s colorful and energetic, reflecting the spirit of the nearby waterfront.
The Santa Cruz Heights: Chaminade Resort & Spa
Before leaving the Central Coast, you have to head up into the Santa Cruz Mountains to Chaminade Resort & Spa. Perched on a hilltop with views of Monterey Bay, it feels like a world away from everything. The “slow travel” enthusiast will love the hiking trails that weave through the 300-acre property. It’s fantastic for a thoughtful morning walk before the sun gets too high. Make sure to catch a sunset dinner at The View restaurant; the panoramic vista is truly incredible.

Gold Country Heritage: Holbrooke and National Exchange
Now, let’s talk about a real discovery. If you’re willing to venture inland to the Sierra Foothills, you can immerse yourself in California’s storied past.
- Holbrooke Hotel: Located in Grass Valley, this hotel has been operating since 1851! It’s been beautifully restored to keep that gritty, glamorous Gold Rush spirit alive. I love the dark woods and the feeling that you’re part of a living history book. While there, you absolutely must visit Empire Mine State Historic Park to see one of the oldest gold mines in the state.
- The National Exchange Hotel: Nearby in Nevada City, this hotel is like a jewel box. It’s Victorian elegance at its peak, with hand-painted wallpaper and ornate details. It’s the perfect base for exploring local boutiques and artisan galleries.
The Gateway to Yosemite: El Capitan Hotel
Finally, for the traveler who wants to experience the majesty of California’s interior, El Capitan Hotel in Merced is a must. It serves as a sophisticated gateway to the Central Valley. The hotel itself is a gorgeous mix of historic architecture and modern design. It’s a great stop to gather your thoughts and enjoy a thoughtful meal at Rainbird before heading off to see the towering granite peaks of Yosemite National Park.

Southern California: Sun, Surf, and Stadium Magic
As we move south, the energy shifts. It’s brighter, warmer, and there is an undeniable sense of playfulness in the air. This is where the beach culture really takes center stage.
The San Diego Coastal Experience
San Diego is a dream for an active mom like me. There is so much to do, and the weather is almost always delightful.
- Kona Kai San Diego Resort: Located on Shelter Island, this resort has a wonderful “island getaway” feel without leaving the city. I love their SpaTerre and the private beach area. One of my favorite recommendations is to book a beach fire and roast s’mores as the sun dips below the horizon. For a local treat, walk over to the Eppig Brewing Waterfront Biergarten for a craft beer with a view.
- San Diego Mission Bay Resort: This property is all about the waterfront lifestyle. Whether you want to rent a jet ski or go paddleboarding in Mission Bay Park, it’s all right there. The style is fresh and airy, perfect for that SoCal vibe.
- San Diego Paradise Point Resort: This is a true destination resort located on a 44-acre private island. It’s fantastic for families because it feels like a tropical village. They have fire pits, five pools, and the Tidal restaurant. I think you’d also love taking the kids to the nearby Belmont Park for a ride on the historic Giant Dipper roller coaster.
- Tower23 Hotel: For something more contemporary and sleek, head to Pacific Beach. Tower23 is ultra-modern and sits right on the boardwalk. It’s the place to be if you want to be in the center of the action and enjoy sunset cocktails at JRDN.
Upscale Del Mar: L’Auberge Del Mar Resort
Just north of San Diego is the charming village of Del Mar. L’Auberge Del Mar Resort is the height of coastal luxury. It feels like a private seaside estate. You can take a short path directly to the beach or relax by the pool with a view of the ocean. If you’re visiting during the season, you absolutely have to experience the excitement of the Del Mar Racetrack.

Urban Energy: Margaritaville and Padre Hotel
If you want to be in the heart of the city’s nightlife and dining scene:
- Margaritaville Hotel San Diego Gaslamp Quarter: This is pure fun. It brings that relaxed, “no worries” tropical vibe right into the historic Gaslamp Quarter. The rooftop pool deck is one of the largest in the city and a fantastic spot to gather with friends before catching a game at Petco Park.
- Padre Hotel: Located in Bakersfield, this is a legendary spot for those traveling between the north and south. It’s a historic hotel with a very “hip” makeover. The rooftop bar, Brimstone, is a local favorite and offers a great atmosphere.
Hidden Escapes: Catalina and Palm Springs
Sometimes the best discoveries are the ones a little further off the beaten path.
- Bellanca Hotel: You have to take the Catalina Express ferry to Catalina Island! Staying at Bellanca in Avalon feels like you’ve been transported to a Mediterranean village. The hotel overlooks the harbor, and you can spend your days snorkeling, hiking, or taking a Glass Bottom Boat Tour.
- Royal Sun Palm Springs: No California trip is complete without a desert adventure. This property offers that classic mid-century modern Palm Springs feel. It’s bright, sunny, and perfect for soaking up the heat. I recommend booking a Modernism Architecture Tour to see the iconic homes that made this city famous.
My Pro-Tips for Your California Journey
Planning a trip this large can feel overwhelming, but remember, the joy is in the discovery! Here are a few things I’ve learned from my own travels:
- Embrace the Pacific Coast Highway: If you have the time, drive. The stretch between Monterey and Santa Barbara is one of the most beautiful drives in the world.
- Pack Layers: California is famous for its microclimates. It might be 80 degrees in the valley and 60 degrees by the coast. A light sweater or denim jacket is your best friend.
- Book Experiences in Advance: Whether it’s a spa treatment at Silverado or a dinner reservation at Estéban, the best spots fill up fast, especially during high-profile events.
- Farmer’s Markets: Seek them out! The Saturday Del Mar Farmers Market is a personal favorite.
- Look for the “Hidden Gems”: Don’t just stay in the big cities. The charm of places like Nevada City or Avalon is what makes a trip truly memorable.
The Ultimate Goal: Memories That Last
At the end of the day, whether your team wins or loses, the memories you create on the road are what you’ll take home with you. I love to share these recommendations because I know how much a carefully planned trip can enrich your life. California is a place of endless possibility—from the deep history of the Gold Country to the modern luxury of San Diego’s resorts.
I hope you feel inspired to explore beyond the stadiums and immerse yourself in everything this incredible state has to offer. There is so much beauty, flavor, and soul here just waiting for you to find it. I’m so excited for you to start your journey!
Safe travels and enjoy every single moment!
“The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page.” — This is a mantra I live by, and California is one of the most exciting chapters you’ll ever read.
What part of the Golden State are you most excited to explore first?


